Free parking for people who are disabled but yet wanting to be treated the same. This has been one of the discussions on The ET website this week.
So, which one is it, different, same, equal or not?
I was walking out of a shop the other day and there was a woman in a wheelchair, and because she saw me first, she moved to one side to give me right of way. As I looked up, my instant reaction was one of trying to help. I almost jumped to give her right of way, but quickly realised that the polite thing to do would be to acknowledge her gesture, so I did.
As I walked out, I wondered whether we ever see disabled people as the same or equal? I'm not sure.
But doesn't that stand for everyone? Take me for instance, the mere fact that I have a brown complexion makes me different. No matter what I do, the fact that I'm an Asian woman doing it will always remain – and such thoughts in themselves can challenge the idea of equality.
On the other hand, there is no denying that in today's Western society, we can also capitalise on our differences. It's partly why I have this role.
Take Helen Smith, the director of policy and campaigns for the disabled motorist, for example. She had written a somewhat passionate letter in regards to blue badge holders having to pay for car parking, saying: "In the current climate of rapidly increasing motoring costs, this is merely an additional financial burden for the disabled motorist."
And she's absolutely right. But what is also a fact is there are also single parents, deprived families and, believe it or not, people who are worse off than someone with a disability, who are also struggling with today's climate. So really, is it fair?
I'm not suggesting that I am in favour of making disabled people pay for car parking, and I completely concur that they should have the most convenient spaces.
But, does that mean we can agree there is a difference? Is it OK to admit that?
The thing is, there is all this talk of people wanting to be accepted, being equal, being treated like everyone else, and I say you're more then welcome to it.
But don't be surprised when you see how insensitive, unfair and ugly being like everyone else can get.
Personally, I believe, that we are all equally different in one way or another.
Related:
Parking hike set to hit disabled and traders, 4 July 2008.
Readers' letters: Disabled people should park for free 23/08/2008.
The full article contains 447 words and appears in Peterborough ET newspaper.