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Published Date:
20 November 2009
Thirteen-year-old Amy-Louise Paul said she was in shock after being told that another girl had created a We Hate Amy-Louise page on social-networking site Facebook described as "for all the people who hope she would die already".
The Arthur Mellows Village College pupil could not understand why the girl had formed the group and is so horrified that she has not been able to read the distressing comments herself and now dreads
going into school.

But the brave teenager has made the decision to speak out about her ordeal to highlight the emotional impact cyber-bullying can have.

Amy-Louise, of Ploverly, Werrington, Peterborough, said: "I was really shocked. I want there to be more awareness of the consequences and show what cyber-bullying does to people and how it makes them feel.

"I have been back to school since because I don't want the bullies to think they have won."

She added that the experience had helped her make up her mind on her future career and that she wanted to be a solicitor to help people get justice.

Her mother Lisa (41) has notified the police, who have started an investigation, but she is now worried about how it may affect her daughter.

She said: "She is petrified to go to school, has withdrawn into herself and she feels that the girl is not getting punished for what she has done.

"Her dad and I can't concentrate and sleep with one ear open, hoping our daughter hasn't done something stupid in her bedroom. I feel we need to bring this issue to the forefront. It's affecting my daughter.

"She keeps it inside but the bullies don't understand the hurt they are causing."

The school in Glinton was alerted by a parent a day before Amy-Louise found out about it last week.

Headteacher Mike Sandeman has held a meeting with her parents and told her that the girl who had created the site would be disciplined at school.

He told the ET that he couldn't comment on individual cases but took reports of cyber-bullying seriously.

Children's charity, the NSPCC is calling for parents to help their children stay safe in cyberspace as part of Anti-Bullying Week this week.

NSPCC head of child protection awareness Chris Cloke said: "Cyber-bullying is one of the worst, most menacing forms of bullying because it can be so hard to escape. It can follow children around 24 hours a day, targeting them whenever they are online or on their mobile phone, even at home.

"It is especially worrying that some children are still not reporting it. I would urge any young person to tell someone they trust."

FACTFILE... on the cyber-bullying issue
CYBER-BULLYING hit the headlines this week after two teenage girls were convicted of manslaughter after their violent bullying drove a vicar's daughter to jump to her death from a window.

Rosimeiri Boxall (19) leapt from the third-floor flat to avoid further abuse from her tormentors.

A jury at the Old Bailey found Oluwafemi Ajose and Hatice Can guilty on Wednesday. Mobile phone footage, recorded half an hour before Ms Boxall's death in May 2008, shows her slumped on a bed being slapped and punched by Ajose as Can eggs her on.

In the days leading up to Ms Boxall's death her clothes had been set on fire, air freshener sprayed in her face and she was threatened with having bleach poured down her throat.

Related links:
Bullying advice and information - BBC Newsround
news.bbc.co.uk/cbbcnews/hi/specials/bullying/default.stm


Bullying UK charity - Help and advice for victims of bullying their parents and school - www.bullying.co.uk

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  • Last Updated: 20 November 2009 10:49 AM
  • Source: Peterborough ET
  • Location: Peterborough
 
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vintagist,

peterborough 20/11/2009 12:20:10
I think this is disgusting. i myself had a hate group started on myspace 4 years ago and it destroyed me.

All the school will do is tell the kids off if they find out who did it.
More should be done to punish people that go out there way to cause misery in other people lifes.
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kevb,

Peterborough 20/11/2009 12:26:01
This is a very distressing story and we wish Amy-Lousie all the love and support she deserves.
As for facebook, there are ways they can help. People name these accounts using a number of specific words in title. Facebook can trace accounts with these words and send ip addresses of any computer that links up to those accounts. The police can then use this information to locate the individuals who parttake and the owner of course.
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pbt,

Werrington 20/11/2009 13:08:41
What a terrible situation to be in.

I think the Girl(s) who created that group should be named and shamed, and police action taken against them.

A strong message should be sent out that bullying, of any sort, is totally unnacceptable.
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Bucks,

Peterborough 20/11/2009 13:11:32
That's terrible though I am not supprised. I would've hated to be a girl at school, they get more vicious than lads ever do.
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Stanhattan,

20/11/2009 13:15:29
The girl who started the page should be told off by the head in front of the whole school assembly, and forced to publicly apologise, from the stage, to the girl, and the school as a whole, for her behaviour.
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spud1,

20/11/2009 13:43:58
Arthur Mellows has a good reputation and is one of only 2 senior schools in Peterborough I could bear to see my child attend. So it'd better do something about this.
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Veritas of Peterborough,

20/11/2009 14:01:35
Isn't there an abuse button which people can press on these sites to inform facebook? Once this is pressed someone should take the site down and warn the creator of the site through their connected email account. If you are starting to look at getting the police involved then surely all those who commented will also need investigating at a great deal of public expense. Personally, I dont think minors should be allowed to open these accounts as they are inviting trouble.
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clevergirl,

Peterborough 20/11/2009 14:36:27
You have to be either 16 or 18 years old to join up to Facebook. there is an abuse button - but as my daughter found out, they don't do anything.
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Yanni,

20/11/2009 14:45:04
Yes you can report a group, its on the bottom left of the group. Problem with the amount of members Facebook has its can be hard to get their attention. TBH Facebook is more afraid of the media and police than solicitors and lawyers. If the ET give their press centre a call it would have much more of an effect than any amount of clicking on the report button.

As well as http://www.bullying.co.uk children can also call childline on 0800 1111 which is a totally free and confidential service.

Hope things improve in the future for you Amy, its good to see your not letting them beat you. Take care.
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cong_man,

P'boro. 20/11/2009 14:54:56
@6 "The bully should definately be banned from Facebook, and should have her home internet connection suspended."

In a age where the internet is easily accessed via mobile phones and other such devices, as well as free e-mail addresses and accounts easily available, 'bans' are too easy to circumvate I'm afraid.
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